So is Social Networking maturing?
Abbey Klaassen and Beth Snyder Bulik write in their Ad Age Article (http://tinyurl.com/c7e347): “While social networking used to be the domain of the under-30 crowd, its use among older adults is skyrocketing. As of January 2009, more than 50% of Facebook users and 44% of MySpace users in the U.S. were over 35 years old, according to ComScore estimates. The single biggest age demographic in the U.S. on both Facebook and MySpace is between 35 and 44. Indeed, Facebook says its fastest-growing demo is 55-plus.”
I'm hearing the question more and more these days. Isn’t Facebook just for the young kids?
Well, everything comes of age, including myself. Now even I am on the cusp of the ripe old age of 37, which puts me in that 35+ category when I fill in online forms, and perhaps more importantly when I sign up for the rec basketball league at the NYSC. And of course right smack in the middle of this facebook question.
At the ironically named, AdAge Digital Conference in NY recently, Sheryl Sandberg, COO of Facebook told the audience that older generations are some of the most rapidly growing segments of Facebook and a common question she fields at events is, "how can I get my kids to be my friend on Facebook?" (You can review our Tweets from Ad Age Conf. twitter.com/FlightpathNY with #aadigi)
Fortunately, when I got started on Facebook, my son became my very first friend. But I had to hoodwink him into it by telling him my boss made me get into facebook because I needed to know it for work. I’ve since been friended by a few of his buddies (we all talk a little friendly trash) but I can recall the comment from his girlfriend at the time: "How could you friend your DAD!?#$%."
And I have to admit, when I first got on Facebook and I friended my son, I thought I was very hip. Then more and more “friends” came streaming in. As my dear friend and colleague Ryan Kitson wrote in his blog post To Friend or Not to Friend (http://tinyurl.com/cddo4d), sometimes it's hard to determine who is and isn’t a “friend.”
And then I got to wondering about who my own friends are on Facebook. My HS “friends” are definitely on Facebook. My younger family is there and active, my parents are not there yet (at least I don't think they are), and then there is my hoops crew. Only a few of them are on Facebook.
The over 35 Hastings-on-Husdon hoops group is a little social network of its own and we recently got to play hoops in Madison Square Garden to celebrate one of our member’s 50th birthday! Now that I think of it, the invitation for this party unlike most of the others I’ve received lately didn't come out on Facebook. Nor have the pictures been posted on Facebook to my knowledge….yet. Don't get me wrong, guys, I'm not calling you all seniors!
I’ve heard 40 is the new 20, so that means I can look forward to lots more hoops and lots more Facebook. And next year when we play at the Garden we’ll have to send the invite and post the pictures on Facebook.